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What makes you different?

10.06.2025 04:51

What makes you different?

What makes you YOU.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Why would calling me an incel help anything? How does that solve anything? Why can’t you actually be helpful and offer productive honest advice?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

I told my 13-year-old daughter that she should never start a fight, but has my permission to end it. She got suspended for ending a fight that some other girl picked with her by hitting her then retreating. How do I handle the school’s response?

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Why does my narcissistic ex told me that he f*cked and sleep with other woman and then at the end says that it also happened because of me?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Why all the fuss about Trump’s policy initiatives? Isn’t he just trying to set a moral tone for the Republican Party to make America great again?

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

If you believe in God, do you think God can save you from cancer?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

How long can someone with narcissistic tendencies maintain a facade of fake love before their true self is revealed? Is there a specific trigger or amount of time that causes them to reveal their true nature?

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

So, what actually makes us all different?

How come Taiwan is LGBT friendly, yet Japan and South Korea are not?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

What do you think of Obito Uchiha?

What if he’d come outside?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

What blowjob techniques do you use for your man to cum inside your mouth?

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

So, keep on experimenting.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Do most narcissists have good intentions as long as you are under their control?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Agree?

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Can you make it?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu